Skipping School: What’s Really Behind Teen Absences
by Thygerson Vaun
Contributing writer and mother of three
Dec 30, 2025
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Life as a teenager in Bakersfield can be challenging, with social pressures, academic demands, and the emotional highs and lows of adolescence. It’s no surprise that some students might feel tempted to hit snooze and skip the school day. While a single day off may seem harmless, repeated absenteeism, or commonly known as truancy, can indicate deeper underlying issues.

In California, school attendance is mandatory. A student with three or more unexcused absences in a single school year is considered truant under state law. Schools are required to notify parents and may involve law enforcement or the courts if the pattern continues. But before focusing on consequences, it’s essential to understand why teens are skipping school.

There are many reasons students choose to stay home. Bullying remains a major factor, with one in five students nationally reporting experiences of verbal abuse, rumors, or social exclusion that make school feel unsafe. Academic overload can also drive absenteeism, as falling behind may feel easier than asking for help.

Conflicts with teachers or peers can turn a once- enjoyable class into a source of stress, and family financial pressures sometimes push teens to work part-time jobs, interfering with attendance. Substance use can lead some teens to miss school, while mental health struggles such as anxiety or depression, make daily attendance feel overwhelming. Friendship circles can affect attendance, with some students choosing to stay home when peers do the same.

The consequences of missing school extend far beyond falling behind in class. Students may become ineligible for sports and extracurricular activities, struggle to keep up academically, or face restrictions on driving privileges if truancy becomes habitual. In California, repeated absences can even result in fines or court appearances for both students and parents.

Parents, guardians, and caregivers should watch for warning signs such as school notifications of absences, dropping grades, or noticeable changes in behavior, including withdrawal, irritability, or secrecy. Early attention can make a significant difference.

Open communication is key. Talking with teens early and often about the real-world consequences of skipping school can help prevent the formation of such habits. Understanding the root cause usually requires collaboration with teachers, counselors, and even peers.

Together, families and schools can develop plans that may include tutoring, counseling, or schedule adjustments, providing students with the support they need to stay on track. Staying connected with the school ensures that intervention can happen quickly and collaboratively.
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