(Metro News Service) Memorial Day weekend is the unofficial kickoff to summer. It's a time for cold beverages and poolside enjoyment, all the while reflecting on the meaning behind the holiday. People across the country will host Memorial Day gatherings over this long weekend. Throwing an event that hits all the right notes and is enjoyed by all comes down to proper planning.

Lean into Americana. When establishing the theme and decor for the party, opting for a strong Americana theme should be a no-brainer. Enhance tablescapes by choosing classic looks. Opt for a navy or red tablecloth with white ceramic plates and then a red or blue napkin. Fill small silver buckets or mason jars with white hydrangeas and red carnations for a timeless feel. Patriotic aluminum stars and country classics can be purchased at nearby hardware centers.

Respect the flag​​​​​​. Any American flags used for decor at the party should be handled with respect. Flags should never touch the ground, be worn as clothing or used as tablecloths.

Elevate the menu. Give a classic grilling menu an upgrade with a few touches that can make the experience more special. Consider a "build-your-own" bar with various gourmet toppings that can add extra flavor to burgers and hot dogs. Swap potato salad and cole slaw sides for lighter, gourmet options that won't spoil in the heat. Watermelon paired with feta or palm hearts paired with cherry tomatoes is light and refreshing. Create a signature drink that offers a nod to the red, white, and blue. A batch of lemonade with blueberries and strawberries appeals to all ages. Adults can opt to spike theirs with a favorite spirit.

Classic lawn games​​​​​​. Guests can be treated to some entertainment that goes beyond the pool or sitting barside. Popular lawn games, such as cornhole, Spikeball, bocce, and more, encourage guests to get up, move, and mingle. Think about having classic activities that can harken back to simpler times. Turn music on and off for a game of "freeze dance." Or let kids play a friendly game of dodgeball or Red Rover so they stay off their devices.

Secure the soundtrack​​​​​​. It's important to keep a steady playlist of songs going to maintain the vibe. Tailor the list to feature softer songs when guests are arriving or eating. More upbeat songs can be featured later in the day, after people have become comfortable mingling. Use a combination of songs that blend classic summer pop and rock with some patriotic hits.

Write down your task list. Writing down tasks and when to do them can keep a party host on track. Invitations should be sent at least three weeks out. With such a popular entertaining day, sending the invitations earlier might be smart. Shop for non-perishable items a week before. Save food shopping for two or three days before Memorial Day and prep make-ahead items the day before. The grill should be lit and preheated about 30 minutes before guests arrive if the plan is to cook immediately; otherwise, let guests stream in and enjoy chips and dips until the bulk of the cooking begins.

Memorial Day festivities are nearly here, and preparing for this unofficial summer kickoff can lead to a more organized, fun and enjoyable party.

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To find Memorial Day ceremonies and celebrations happening in Kern County, visit https://www.kerncountyfamily.com/PublicArticle/4246/2026-Guide-to-Memorial-Day-Weekend-in-Kern-County.